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TLYM Members Club
A relationship & marriage membership for modern, faith-filled women.
Because every man is different.
From the author of Woman, Think Like Your Man, Love Like His Wife. This is not a book club. It is a live space where we work on your mindset, your patterns and build capacity to become a Proverbs 31 Woman.
Be a Founding Member
Click below to enter your details to be the first to know when doors open at the founding rate of £11 per month.
No spam. You will only hear from me about relationships, faith and the Think Like Your Man Club launch.
What This Club Actually Is
Not a book club. A relationship lab.
Think Like Your Man Club is a monthly membership for women who want to:
Understand deeply
Understand themselves and their men on a deeper level.
Break old cycles
Break old cycles in communication, conflict and intimacy.
Stay soft and faith-filled
Stay soft and faith-filled without being a doormat.
Build partnership
Build marriages that feel like partnership, not war.
The book is the doorway. Inside the club we go further. We work on what you believe, how you feel, what you say and how you respond in real situations. So you are not just consuming good ideas — you are changing how you live.
What You Will Experience Inside
Inside Think Like Your Man Club
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Live Coaching and Real Conversations
Monthly live virtual sessions with Yvonne and carefully chosen guests.
  • Teaching on real topics: emotional safety, respect, anger, money, sex, in-laws, culture and more
  • Coaching on real situations that women bring into the room
  • Space to ask the questions you do not feel safe asking anywhere else
These calls are where we connect big ideas to your real life. Replays will be available if you cannot join live.
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The Think Like Your Man Lab
This is the practical core of the club.
  • Scripts — exact phrases you can try in difficult conversations
  • Bi-weekly experiments — small challenges to run at home: e.g. a new way to raise an issue, a boundary to test, a different way to repair after conflict
  • Debriefs — space to reflect on what happened, what you learned and what to adjust
No vague "communicate better" advice. You leave with concrete tools to practise.
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Season Paths for Different Realities
Content and conversations clearly tagged so you can find what fits you:
  • Preparing — dating or engaged, wanting to choose wisely and enter marriage prepared
  • Building — in the thick of marriage, work, children, bills and busy homes
  • Storms — walking through emotional distance, disappointment or hard decisions
You will always know which path a piece of content belongs to.
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Community and Kitchen Party Moments
The community is the container that holds everything.
  • A private online space with clear standards — no husband bashing, no shaming
  • Weekly or monthly check-in threads for wins, struggles and "this just happened" moments
  • Special Kitchen Party Nights — in-person women-only evenings with stories, older auntie wisdom, music and focused teaching
  • Members get first access and special pricing for in-person Kitchen Party events
Why This Is Different
Why this is not just another relationship membership
We work on you, not just on him
This is not a space to fix your man. It is a space to transform how you think, choose, speak, react and heal as a woman. The focus is on your growth and your alignment with God.
Faith and psychology together
You will receive scripture, prayer and spiritual insight. You will also learn about nervous system responses, attachment patterns and practical skills. We honour both faith and wisdom.
Culture-aware, not culture-bound
Wisdom shaped by African roots and European life experience. We talk honestly about culture, tradition and modern pressures — career, independence, social media, porn, blended families. We do not pretend these things are not there.
Designed like a system, not random vibes
Think Like Your Man Club is built as a system that moves you from confusion to clarity, resentment to responsibility, and fear and performance to security and identity in God. You are not here to binge content. You are here to take part in a process.
Who This Is For
Is this for you?
✅ This is for you if...
  • You are single but in a waiting season, dating with intention, or engaged and wanting to prepare well
  • You are married and want more than survival, you want deeper love and connection
  • You are tired of scrolling relationship content that leaves you more confused and discouraged
  • You want to honour God and also talk honestly about sex, money, resentment and disappointment
  • You are willing to look at your own patterns, not only his
❌ This is probably not for you if...
  • You want a place to vent about men with no intention or desire to grow
  • You are looking for quick tricks with no inner work, no reflection and no responsibility
  • You are completely closed to any spiritual or faith perspective being part of the conversation
Limited Availability
Founding Members — what you receive
For this first intake, founding members will receive:
Lowest price ever
£11 per month — the lowest price this club will ever be.
A say in content
A say in the topics we cover in the first months.
Founding Q&A
A special live founding members Q and A with Yvonne and a special guest.
Rate locked in
Your rate is locked for as long as you stay, even if prices rise later.
If you know you want to be part of this from the beginning, add your name to the list now.
Coming Up
Coming up next: virtual deep dive intensives
The club is your ongoing lab. Alongside it, focused intensives will run for women who want to go deeper on specific topics.
First Up
Soft Power Communication Lab
A four-week intensive for women who are tired of repeating the same arguments and want to be heard without shouting, begging or shutting down. Inside this lab you will:
  • Calm your nervous system so you do not spin out every time there is tension
  • Learn clean language to express needs and boundaries without attack or withdrawal
  • Practise repair and making peace when things have already gone wrong
  • Build a 90-day communication plan you can actually live, not just hope for
Future Intensives
Coming Later
  • Storms to Strategy — navigating hard seasons in marriage
  • Sacred Intimacy Lab — healing, desire and sex in Christian marriage
  • Bride to Wife — Kitchen Party Prep Intensive for engaged women
You can indicate which of these interest you most when you join the waitlist.

🎯 Women on the Think Like Your Man Club waitlist will hear about intensives first.
How It Works
How it will work
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Receive Your Invite
When doors open, you will receive an email with the launch date, full details and your private founding member link at £11 per month.
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Step Into the Lab
Come into the club, choose the resources that match your season, join the live sessions, use the tools and start testing new ways of thinking and responding in love.
FAQ
Your questions answered
When is the club launching?
The Club is launching in June 2026. The first topics and guest sessions are being finalised now. Everyone on the waitlist will receive an email with the launch date and joining link.
How much will it cost?
Founding members will pay £11 per month — the lowest price the club will ever be. Your rate is locked in for as long as you stay.
What if I cannot attend live sessions?
Every main live session will be recorded. You will be able to watch replays in your own time and still take part in the experiments and discussions.
Is this only for married women?
No. The club is especially designed for wives, engaged women, women who are dating with intention, or the single woman. Content will be tagged by season so you can find what fits you.
Will my personal situation be shared publicly?
No. Clear community guidelines are in place and you choose what you share. Replays are hosted inside the membership, not on public platforms. Respect and confidentiality are core values.
About Yvonne
Meet Yvonne
I am Yvonne — a wife, mum, researcher and the author of Woman, Think Like Your Man, Love Like His Wife.
I have spent years listening to women talk about love — the beautiful parts and the painful parts. I have also had to face my own patterns: pride, fear, control, silence, anger, shutting down and performing.
I created Think Like Your Man Club because I saw a gap. We do not need more cute quotes and vague advice. We need spaces where we can talk about the real things in our relationships — where we can invite God into those places and practise new ways of being that lead to peace, respect and genuine partnership.
Think Like Your Man Club is that space.
You are welcome here!
Ready to step into the lab?
If something in you is nudging you as you read this, pay attention to that. Add your name to the founding members waitlist and you will be the first to know when doors open at £11 per month.
"This is not about perfection. It is about transformation — one honest, faith-filled step at a time."
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